Saying "No": Overcoming the Guilt of DecliningAm I the only one who struggles with saying, “No,” when asked to do something? I can’t begin to count the number of times I’ve put myself in situations that...Reactions0reactionsComments5 comments
The Impact of PsA on Young Teenagers“Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver, the other is gold.A circle is round, it has no end. That's how long, I will be your friend.” Some...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
The Day I Said Goodbye to My Favorite ShoesI recently switched rheumatologists – not because of my doctor, but because of his staff getting in the way of my care and my son's care. When I called the...Reactions0reactionsComments5 comments
Resisting Resentment: Working Through the Anger on My OwnOne of the many things I was not prepared to deal with after being diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis was the resentment I would eventually have towards my friends and family...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
How to Keep Holiday Festivities from Increasing Your PsA SymptomsThe holidays are upon us! It’s that time of year when we gather and celebrate with friends and family. It involves more outings than we may be used to as...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
My Friend, the Food ProcessorThe first time my jaw flared up, I was fifteen years old and on a family vacation to Walt Disney World. I already wasn’t feeling great to begin with due...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
What Can Giving Back Give You?Giving can seem like a one way street. We let go of something that belongs to us - often my money or clothing or food - so that someone in...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Living With Psoriatic Arthritis Induced Fluctuating Hearing LossPeople don’t really understand all of the possible implications of what it means to have psoriatic arthritis. Painful joints? Yes. Swollen digits? Yes. Fatigue? Absolutely. But there are so many...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments
Tips For Combatting Sleep StrugglesSleep doesn’t always come easy for those of us with PsA. We suffer from insomnia, painsomnia, and sometimes our bodies would rather sleep during the day rather than at night...Reactions0reactionsComments5 comments
Rapid Access Clinics: The Future of PsA Diagnosis?From the onset of first symptoms, the time it takes to diagnose psoriatic arthritis is too long for many people; years or decades, sometimes. There is little doubt that more...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
5 Tips to Boost Medical Staff RelationshipsNurses and office managers often hold the key to opening the door to your doctor. Having a good relationship with the office staff can lead to better access to your...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
My Experience with Infusion TherapyYou’ve spoken with your doctor, read through all of the information, and decided to give one of the infusion medications a try. Now what? Like me, you may still have...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
PsA Made a Mess of My LifeIt is no secret, life can be messy. Throw in a chronic illness like psoriatic arthritis, psoriasis, fibromyalgia, and endometriosis, and it gets even messier. Some people think that my...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
How PsA Turned Me into the Queen of ExcusesBefore psoriatic arthritis (PsA), I didn’t make excuses when someone invited me out or asked me to do something. Unless I was previously engaged, I never said no. In fact...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Sex, Intimacy, and Psoriatic ArthritisPsoriasis causes red, scaly patches on the skin that can be located on all areas of the body and can be painful and itchy, as well as seem unattractive. Psoriatic arthritis causes...Reactions0reactionsComments8 comments
How to Live With a Loved One With Psoriatic Arthritis: Advice From the Other SideI sat down with my hubby for a candid conversation about any advice he might have for others who are the support system for a loved one with psoriatic arthritis...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
Pain Brain Stole My WordsPain brain, also known as brain or fibro fog, is when our physical pain is so bad that it interferes with how our brain functions. When I first heard these...Reactions0reactionsComments4 comments
6 Things Not to Say to Someone Living with PsALiving with psoriatic arthritis (PsA) hurts, but at times what hurts the most are the comments filled with stigma and misconceptions from those around us. Words from some who mean...Reactions0reactionsComments11 comments
Asking for Help: Why It's Important & Tips for AskingIf you ask my family who should be giving advice on how to ask for help, I’m sure the last person they would think of is me. Everyone who knows...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
So Frustrated! My Pain Dismissed Due to Pre-Existing ConditionsMy friends and family think that the pain from psoriatic arthritis and fibromyalgia is the most difficult aspect of my life. For the first few years I also thought that...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments