My flare up hacks Include:
Pace yourself
Sing out loud
Find all parts of your body that don't hurt, no matter how small they are & be thankful for them
Spoil yourself
Learn how to say no
My mother taught me how to say no.I was a teenager, and she you have been talking with a friend on the phone, and she said "I am so sorry, but we have already made plans for Saturday night.". I knew they had not call it because I was the babysitter for the younger siblings.
I asked her why she told and untruth! She said it was not an untruth, she Always had plans. She said In the family room with my husband And Read a good book. I have used that with acquaintances and such when I'm not feeling too well. I have 3 good friends who understand about my condition. They will call me up an hour before something is going on, and ask me if I feel well enough to go. Sometimes I say no I'm sorry I do not. Other times I might say yes,Other times I might say no but I really feel up to a Visitor and share some take-out with you. I love those 3 friends dearly