, I am so sorry you are going through so much. I have days where I don't get out of bed. I take turmeric for inflammation and use heating pads. I'm on Skyrii and Methotrexate. I started out using ice, it made me hurt so much more. I try and get plenty of rest when I can. Have you ever been to a pain management doctor? They put you through a lot, but it's well worth it in the end. My hands started bothering me these last few years. I use a voice-activated computer now, it helps so much. It's like trial and error. We have to find out what works for us. Let us know how you are doing. We would like to hear more from you. Diane (Team Member)